The Ego Placebo
- Jermeile Hairston
- Aug 23
- 2 min read
The Ego Placebo
I make this declaration: to take the time to replace what feeds my ego—an overemphasized attachment to an identity shaped by validation, comparison, status, recognition, appearance, and the expectations of others—with real, perpetual work.
Work that creates something useful.
Work that produces value.
Work that reaches a reason for recognition not because of how I appear, but because of what has been produced and what remains useful after I am gone.
I must keep the secret of what I saw, but I can tell you what I learned:
The Ego was a Placebo.
Meaning it did nothing—it was just being convinced by conjuring belief.
The belief that an identity must be protected.
The belief that appearance determines worth.
The belief that recognition confirms importance.
But what happens when the belief is removed?
What remains is the work.
What remains is the value.
What remains is what was created.
That is the shift: from being consumed by the concept of who I am to becoming accountable for what I create.
The goal is not to be remembered because I demanded recognition.
The goal is to create something valuable enough that remembrance becomes a consequence of contribution.
Thus, proof of concept:
When and where I appear holds more value than how I appear.
Because appearance can attract attention, but production creates value.
Recognition can feed the ego, but usefulness creates purpose.
And when the person is no longer present, the work can continue speaking.
Remembrance
The Ego is a Placebo. Meaning it Does Nothing — it is just being convinced by conjuring belief

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The Proof is not in the Projected Concept of a Person.
The Proof is in the Value They Create when they are no longer present.
Remembrance


